He wanted to go to a night club. Strike 1. I dont have any desire to submerse myself in a huge crowd of sweaty gyrating people so I quickly dismiss this. There's a sushi place that I went to last summer that Ive really been wanting to go back to so I suggest that. I mention that there is other food besides sushi, but he asks IF HE CAN GET A CHEESEBURGER when we sit down. Obviously if it is a sushi buffet, there will be other JAPANESE food, not food you can go snag quickly from McDonalds. This was Strike 3 because if you remember, the Facebook poke was Strike 2.
Brace yourselves for what happened next. In a joking way he says "So youre paying for both of us right?" And I was like "Hm.. nope" and he says "Well I would rather not pay for your dinner." Girls... my jaw hit the floor. I begin to get sort of hostile and bitchy watching him eat with his hand in a fist clenched tightly around his fork. He wasnt sure if he had ever had shrimp before.. and didnt know what to do with the tail. I then had to coach him through how to eat a spare rib. I suggest that he tries some sushi and he tells me he already has. No genius, thats SHRIMP. He admits that he mixed up the S words.
He goes back to the buffet and gets some sushi and then UNROLLS IT WITH HIS HANDS, asks me if he is supposed to eat the seaweed and I can feel my skin begin to crawl. I immediately tell him that I dont think I will be able to make the movie as I have to go into work earlier than I expected tomorrow, or some combination of BS. He keeps asking if he did anything or said something and I very calmly say "I would suggest next time maybe not to lead with telling a girl you would rather not pay for your dinner." He then says that this is just to test out the waters, he pays on the second date and assures me that HE IS NOT CHEAP. Oh, that makes sense. Before I could even think the words "AND THE GIRLS COME BACK?!" quickly escaped my mouth. He assures me that they do.
I was just really irritated. And I'm not the kind of girl that expects men to just fall at her feet and do everything for her. I am VERY independent and my mom tells me that it can often ward off guys who are looking for the insecure, clingy type. But I do feel that if you ask a girl out, you pay for her dinner. I don't think I am so wrong in that. Granted I suggested the restaurant, but he wasn't putting in any other feedback and he agreed that we could go there. It was clear that we just didnt have much in common. Different backgrounds and different interests, but live and learn right?
*On a better note, after I left
Happy Friday Lovelies!!! Sorry for the rant... Am I wrong in my thinking? Please do tell!










